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Oral sex is a great way to give and get pleasure without worrying about the lovely lady getting pregnant. Many blokes enjoy receiving it, some enjoy it more when they give – and it's the same for girls, including several Gold Coastescorts. But what if you keep getting 'no' for an answer when you ask your lovely partner if she wants to “sit on your face”?
Besides how un-sexy that can sound for some, here are a few reasons she turns down that offer each time.
1. She doesn't know how to do it. It may look hot in porn, but when it comes down to it, she has no clue how to face-sit without suffocating you at any point. There are several questions that could run through her mind, like does she just squat or does she grind while you lick? True, she won't find out if she doesn't try it, but it's something she'll be embarrassed about.
2. She's too shy. Dominating her guy might not be up her alley – and yes, there are girls who fall in that category. Who knows, she might just prefer you dominating her and taking charge in bed. You can help her open up a little more in bed, but don't push the face-sitting too much, too early if she's this kind of lady.
3. She's thinking about the smells. Some women are uncomfortable with the idea of oral sex, whether she's lying down or squatting over you, because of the smells down there. Instead of focusing on her pleasure, she'll be thinking about whether the scent is funky or not. That's not exactly a sexy thought, and it'll make it hard for her to orgasm.
4. It's uncomfortable. As mentioned earlier, facesitting involves her squatting over your face while you lick teasingly at her lady bits. You may think this is pleasurable, but it might not be so for her.
Think about it – she looks like she's in the middle of a squat exercise, and has to hold it while you try and get her to climax. Her thighs are likely to get tired at some point, and if she's uncomfortable because of that, there are less chances she'll reach the Big O.
5. Her bum is too near. True, if you're going down on her while she's laying down, her butt is also nearby, but when she's face-sitting, it's just sticking up in the air in some way. That, again, is a distraction from the pleasure she should be feeling, which isn't a good thing for her orgasm.
Whether her reasons are one or all of the above, don't worry – you'll get there eventually when it comes to watching her grind above you while you use your mouth on her. But until then, just go slow, several Gold Coast escorts advise, so that she gets used to you going south to pleasure her.